Have you ever found yourself in a long, involved explanation of why you can’t say “yes” to someone’s request? It’s a common tendency, especially if you feel pressured by the other person—for instance, if it’s your boss asking you to work late tonight! You’re not helping your case.
You know the feeling—your cheeks get hot, your hands clench. When we’re frustrated, it’s hard to focus on anything else. But if we want to be successful, you have to figure out how to come out on top (not BLOW your top!) even when you’re in a stressful situation.
The idea of self-promotion conjures a negative perception for many people. They immediately think it equates to bragging—and that’s a dirty word for most well-mannered folks. Certainly, self-promotion can be problematic. When done wrong, it can backfire and harm your reputation. After all, we’ve all known someone who missed the mark and came off as arrogant or self-righteous. And who wants to be known for that?
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